No War, Make Love

xD

2005-09-01T12:27:00.000+08:00

just came here to type something so my blog doesnt look inactive. haha basically i dun update unless there's things i would really like to say, most probably some criticism or complaints. yea so if there's nothing interesting, i wont really update.. haha so yea thats all pz!

im sick =(

2005-08-20T13:55:00.000+08:00

yea im sick. very very sick. still duno whether i contracted dengue fever, gotta wait 2days before the symtoms start appearing. my temp stays at 38.2degrees right now. >( yesterday was a bad day. i woke up at 6am, do all the usual things b4 i head for school. just b4 i went out, i remembered about that idiot hamster. i went to the shoebox, opened it and to my HORROR, its missing.. i spent the next 15mins lookin for it like a mad man! still to no avail, i woke my mom up and asked her to look for me. i was almost late for school. i reached there jus in time =/ so whats next? i felt my body temp rising and rising during maths lesson. den i know i got fever T.T i thought i contracted dengue fever as i got bitten by a dumb mosquito that morn at ard my thigh area >.< i went home during recess and went to c a doc. he said i have to wait for red spots to appear b4 he can confirm its dengue. it was really a bad day! btw, its the 15th of the lunar 7th month yesterday =(

oh yea, after more than 30hours of locating and searchin for that idiot hamster, we found it hiding behind a stack of used bags! it can really hide =/ it slimmed down too! haha :)

why do couples break up?

2005-08-08T17:31:00.000+08:00

im bored now and you must be bored too! why not read why i've typed down here!

topic of the day: why do couples break up?
i've been looking around and thinking about it so here's what i concluded.

have you pple ever wonder why do some couples break up so easily? many pple would think that the answer would most probably be
1. an affair
2. change of heart
3. tired of the relationship

however, have you ever think that preventions could be made to prevent those 3 above from happening? for example, flirting. this issue happen to many pple. one particular example happened close to me and let me described what it's all about.

the guy flirts, the girl also flirts. however, they are a couple. so whats this? comparing who's better at flirting? i just cant stand it when i see the girl flirting and the guy flirting. what made things worst is that, sometimes they actually did it in front of one another. can u believe this? so do u think this kind of relationship will last? the answer is obvious: NO. but what if they last? the answer is: they are using one another. so what for start a relationship and harm yourselves? which is so dumb? she is your stead and he is your stead as well. shouldnt u be protective of one another rather than lettin these things happen? remember, flirting is a big mistake when in relationships. if you want to flirt, do not have a stead.

speaking of protective, there's this buddy of mine who think he's over protective, which i think he's not! girls liked their guys to care about them and ask about them, cause it gives them security. over protective is not a problem unless you're controlling his/her life. this is a problem as it can caused one to be suffocating and eventually "dies" and breaks up. usually before any break ups, u will be able to c the symtoms appearing slowly. some examples are:
1. being very slow at replying to your sms/messages
2. having little/no dates with you
3. didnt get angry when you didnt asked about them
4. telling you lies

other reasons are possible as well, those above are meant for reference lol. having some quarrels and arguments are normal and that usually dont lead to breaking ups. after resolving them, usually the couples became close and loving once again.

my conclusion? please open your eyes big and wide b4 you start to have a relationship with someone. spend some time understanding them b4 starting is not harmful and can save both of you the trouble of breaking up in the future. however during a relationship, it is also important to look out for changes in your partner and please do not assume everything is going to be alright. if you think everything will turn out fine, you should be prepared that having a breakup soon will be alright to you. =)

pardon me if my english's bad =/

sigh

2005-07-31T22:32:00.000+08:00

nothing much happened recently, been playing gunbound over the weekend. its kinda boring yea but it kills some time. should have gone with cy to cityharvest last night. i heard much about it and felt like going there. who knows? my mom forbidded me. she scared i kena psychoed there or something like that. and cy told mi something which made mi even want to go and look around. its regarding the holy spirit or something which made the worshippers scream and faint over. well thats facinating O.o and he made it sound like some exorcism haha! gotta find time to go there someday!

nxt week is common test week.. i hope i do well in them. haven been putting much effort in my work recently except for the o level chinese paper. results should probably be out next week! i hope i done well, seriously.

im fine now

2005-07-24T01:23:00.000+08:00

i thank you guys for askin. im fine now. some ups and downs in your life, thats what you need in order to lead an interesting one.
and one more thing, too interesting is bad for health. so take care yall

fcuk

2005-07-21T17:05:00.000+08:00

if you are someone who gets offended easily by stuffs, please get ur ass off my blog right now

i would like to touch on several topics in this entry

1. jealousy
whats with jealousy nowadays? i c people around me affected by this very word and spoilin our very own friendships and stuffs. why does this word come about? in my opinion, i think jealousy comes about when there's a lost of trust between one or both partners or in couples. please take note, if you c someone with a very pretty girl/handsome guy as stead and you feel uneasy, thats envy, not jealousy. these few days, jealousy had spoiled our friendship. i c no reason what is there to be jealous about. if you people know me well, you should know im always fair to my friends in one way or two. even though i usually treat my best friends better than normal friends [who doesnt]. ok, it seemed there's a lost of trust between us and that resulted in some arguments. i admit sometimes i lost my cool but i dont shout it in your face. i just walk away or some other stuffs. i just cant believe that our friendship couldnt withstand these misunderstandings.

2. difference between guys n girls
it seemed like during any breakups or whatever shit stuffs, guys are always in the wrong. but please, in this 21st century, both gender are equal. however, girls usually think in a way that "if the guy kept quiet, it means he's ok" which is like "silence means consent". sometimes, girls just dont understand how guys think. we need security. not in a way where our friends or what can protect us, but its something we want to be sure about. such as things like "will my best friend ever backstab me?" in this 21st century, i believe everybody will like to see equality in everything, such as equal punishments between guys and girls. however, when things go wrong, its always the guys who should be sorry and apologise. to who you may think. to the girls who is crying for help and pushin everything to the guys. i hate it when girls cry to solve things. what happen today reminds me of what took place last year. as usual, i just left the place in silence. there's no need for me to explain.

3. just a joke
when the difference between the girl and guy comes together with jealousy, it seemed like some people [ be it guy or girl ] couldnt take small things like jokes. they feel that you've changed. i would like to say that i have not changed. please think back time and recap how you've been treating me these few days. im already very patient and nice. i just do not want little things to spoil our friendship. however if you ever cry in front of me and try to make me guilty, i will get fed up immediately and before you know it, im not your friend. girls doesnt expect guys to talk about other girls. i believe guys wanted that too. however, i dont restrict you from talkin about your guy friends or who you find cute. im there to listen to you as its your interest and im the one you could share these with. however, i cant share my opinions of other girls i find cute with you. its because it seemed that we've lost the trust we once had between one another. and worst still, you think its the girl who had ruined our friendship. please let me make it clear, its the "lost of trust", not the "NFF".

4. my character
last but not least, my own character. i would like to say that i had not changed in one way or another. maybe the way my hair looked now sucked or i turned ugly but, my character is still the same. im always there for you, my friends if you need me. im the one you know a few years back or many years back [maybe a little more vain now]. if anything had gone wrong between you and i, it can be the lost of trust between us. it cant go wrong because of a third person. im very fair to my friends i should say. please make this clear. being my friends/best friends, im sure you people understand me and my character. so please dont play stupid games with me and try to piss me out. let me tell you this, i can be smiling and laughing out loud everyday with you. but if you do things which can affect my relationships with other friends or my life, please be prepared to lose me as your friend.

this entry is to let you people to have more negative thoughts about me. as i said, all these above are my personal opinions. if you get offended by one thing or another you see here, please get lost. i had already stated this in my 1st sentence of this entry. if you think what i typed was wrong, just drop me a tag. if you're here to scold me or whatever, just go away and get a life. i dont give a damn to what you're going to say or think about me.

yea!

2005-06-24T22:25:00.000+08:00

yea! ive got a new bag! lalalala haha well yea got the one i had always wanted.. its grey n red la lol.. sad to say i didnt get to watch initial d today.. jarrod cant get out wanyan cant make it and everyone's busy! so well mi n daph.. =/ LOL so i just went out with my cousin for my bag.. i had a cap n my specs so i look like malay la.. then this zhiyang ar told mi he saw girls lookin at us den look at me sia.. they appeared at diff corners everytime somemore.. haha he fake la must be lookin at him hahahaha! or maybe they think i malay why sayin chinese LOL yea maybe.. =x oh well hols endin! tc guys and cyall on monday! rock on!

T.T

2005-06-22T22:30:00.000+08:00

back to blogging after so long! well bout 2 more days im completing my homework! wahahaha gonna watch initial d on friday with daphne jarrod and wanyan.. weeee lol and buyin a new bag too! yea ^^ holiday's ending.. my modem is drifting away from me.. damn T.T glad that i made many new friends and learn new stuffs this hols! enriching yea! \m/ screamo!

stupid

2005-06-14T12:35:00.000+08:00

for this entry, i just wanna say im glad to have brothers. no matter what background u came from and how good you are, we c each other as one of us. we dont despise and shoot at one another. im happy.

sentosa

2005-06-13T23:55:00.000+08:00

today's the day most mates had been lookin forward to. bout 20-30 of us were there [sentosa]. kinda enjoyed it but lets start from the morn. i cut my middle finger while openin a can stuff. long time since i last cut my finger but why on this day? i knew that it's bad start! following which, i cut my gums while brushin, slightly grazed my palm and scraped skin off my foot while having fun there. god damnit!

anyway, we played dodgeball, rugby and stuffs which included swimming of course. we started out by pulling girls into the water which was, funny n cute wahahaha. i was claimed the 'mad man' who dashed into the water and a jump which splashes water at all mates in there. im so sorry but i was carried away lol! did it several times n gulped down some salt water. damn it cos its the most saltish EVER! roar haha.

after i showered and changed into a fresh new set of clothes, i was stared by some poser-like ah bengs [yucks]. hell to you. they keep starin non stop but i dont really bother bout them and walked off, shakin my arse wahaha. ok after which, went to the musical fountain. thought could calm some nerves there but it seemed to turn out worse. its so much different from before seriously!

everybody goes home after that. we spent the time during the journey talkin bout ghost stories. kahhwee was tellin mi to stop takin photos with daphne at the back of the bus. reason behind it :we might include some unwanted figures in the photos. lol it turned out me tellin ghost stories to those girl mates and weak hearted girls like joyce couldnt seemed to take it very well! sigh!

after slightly more than half a day outside, im back home right now typin some shits for u gays to read. haha just jokin! alright thats the end and take care mates! was suppose to meet danny 2day but he went off earlier! therefore missed him! booo haha nvm nxt time maybe ^^

daze

2005-06-11T00:40:00.000+08:00

whats there to be done on this nice saturday? shoppin or bustin a ghost out of a flat in woodlands? capturing spirits aint my profession but sounds kinda cool. felt so stuck these few days and needed a breather. should just find a starry nite and camp on my flat's rooftop. it would be better when there's someone beside me, moontanning with me. why cant it be u? i miss u

life

2005-06-09T21:30:00.000+08:00

hell. my hols are boring. get mi stuffs to do and accompany me. im going sentosa, kbox, shoppin, catch a movie, meetin a lil bro, remedials and studyin. drop mi sms to tell mi u wanna accompany me. ^^

test

2005-06-09T10:55:00.000+08:00

new blog, link mi yea people