_______________War is NOT the only Answer//Wake Me up when September eNds _______________

Thursday, September 01, 2005

just came here to type something so my blog doesnt look inactive. haha basically i dun update unless there's things i would really like to say, most probably some criticism or complaints. yea so if there's nothing interesting, i wont really update.. haha so yea thats all pz!

"War is not the only answer..."
12:27 PM

Saturday, August 20, 2005

im sick =(

yea im sick. very very sick. still duno whether i contracted dengue fever, gotta wait 2days before the symtoms start appearing. my temp stays at 38.2degrees right now. >( yesterday was a bad day. i woke up at 6am, do all the usual things b4 i head for school. just b4 i went out, i remembered about that idiot hamster. i went to the shoebox, opened it and to my HORROR, its missing.. i spent the next 15mins lookin for it like a mad man! still to no avail, i woke my mom up and asked her to look for me. i was almost late for school. i reached there jus in time =/ so whats next? i felt my body temp rising and rising during maths lesson. den i know i got fever T.T i thought i contracted dengue fever as i got bitten by a dumb mosquito that morn at ard my thigh area >.< i went home during recess and went to c a doc. he said i have to wait for red spots to appear b4 he can confirm its dengue. it was really a bad day! btw, its the 15th of the lunar 7th month yesterday =(

oh yea, after more than 30hours of locating and searchin for that idiot hamster, we found it hiding behind a stack of used bags! it can really hide =/ it slimmed down too! haha :)

"War is not the only answer..."
1:55 PM

Monday, August 08, 2005

why do couples break up?

im bored now and you must be bored too! why not read why i've typed down here!

topic of the day: why do couples break up?
i've been looking around and thinking about it so here's what i concluded.

have you pple ever wonder why do some couples break up so easily? many pple would think that the answer would most probably be
1. an affair
2. change of heart
3. tired of the relationship

however, have you ever think that preventions could be made to prevent those 3 above from happening? for example, flirting. this issue happen to many pple. one particular example happened close to me and let me described what it's all about.

the guy flirts, the girl also flirts. however, they are a couple. so whats this? comparing who's better at flirting? i just cant stand it when i see the girl flirting and the guy flirting. what made things worst is that, sometimes they actually did it in front of one another. can u believe this? so do u think this kind of relationship will last? the answer is obvious: NO. but what if they last? the answer is: they are using one another. so what for start a relationship and harm yourselves? which is so dumb? she is your stead and he is your stead as well. shouldnt u be protective of one another rather than lettin these things happen? remember, flirting is a big mistake when in relationships. if you want to flirt, do not have a stead.

speaking of protective, there's this buddy of mine who think he's over protective, which i think he's not! girls liked their guys to care about them and ask about them, cause it gives them security. over protective is not a problem unless you're controlling his/her life. this is a problem as it can caused one to be suffocating and eventually "dies" and breaks up. usually before any break ups, u will be able to c the symtoms appearing slowly. some examples are:
1. being very slow at replying to your sms/messages
2. having little/no dates with you
3. didnt get angry when you didnt asked about them
4. telling you lies

other reasons are possible as well, those above are meant for reference lol. having some quarrels and arguments are normal and that usually dont lead to breaking ups. after resolving them, usually the couples became close and loving once again.

my conclusion? please open your eyes big and wide b4 you start to have a relationship with someone. spend some time understanding them b4 starting is not harmful and can save both of you the trouble of breaking up in the future. however during a relationship, it is also important to look out for changes in your partner and please do not assume everything is going to be alright. if you think everything will turn out fine, you should be prepared that having a breakup soon will be alright to you. =)

pardon me if my english's bad =/

"War is not the only answer..."
5:31 PM

Sunday, July 31, 2005

sigh

nothing much happened recently, been playing gunbound over the weekend. its kinda boring yea but it kills some time. should have gone with cy to cityharvest last night. i heard much about it and felt like going there. who knows? my mom forbidded me. she scared i kena psychoed there or something like that. and cy told mi something which made mi even want to go and look around. its regarding the holy spirit or something which made the worshippers scream and faint over. well thats facinating O.o and he made it sound like some exorcism haha! gotta find time to go there someday!

nxt week is common test week.. i hope i do well in them. haven been putting much effort in my work recently except for the o level chinese paper. results should probably be out next week! i hope i done well, seriously.

"War is not the only answer..."
10:32 PM

Sunday, July 24, 2005

im fine now

i thank you guys for askin. im fine now. some ups and downs in your life, thats what you need in order to lead an interesting one.
and one more thing, too interesting is bad for health. so take care yall

"War is not the only answer..."
1:23 AM

No War, Make Love